This is a guide for those of you who want to be DOMINATED, but do not know where to begin. Let’s suppose you watched a documentary on the Discovery Channel, about this guy who got his kinks in a way the producers of the documentary labeled as “weird”: this particular guy we are talking about was presented in a context with a RUBBER DRESSED FEMALE carrying a whip. He was kneeling in front of the rubber clad female, and made to kiss her high heeled shoes. Something in this image made you wish you were in his position. Was it the beautiful female he was made to submit to? Was it the idea of bowing down to someone? Was it the public humiliation of being recorded, then broadcast for the whole world to see? Was it the incredibly sexy high heels she was wearing? This image makes your cock swell and twitch as soon as you get it in your mind, and it seems to linger on, unwilling to leave you alone… But why would you even want to be left alone?

I shall give you an alternative, and I am pretty sure you will be eternally grateful for the idea. Gather your money (because THAT you are going to need, no matter whether the Dominant Female is a Lifestyle Domme, a Professional Dominatrix or a Cam/ Phone Dominatrix), and book a session! That wasn’t so difficult, was it? All you had to do was reach out. There are so many Ladies who are willing to give you some of their time and attention, in exchange for your submission, be it a temporary state of mind, or something permanent in nature. Do you feel shy and uneasy in any context? Or do you just become weak at the sight of sexy legs in pantyhose? A tight leather skirt on a beautiful behind of a Lady whose face you are not really interested in seeing? Then you might be a submissive, or you might be a fetishist, or both things together. There is no clear separation line, or border. It’s all … 50 Shades of Grey (by the way, horrible book, despite being a bestseller. People should really pay that amount of money to get an idea about BDSM, rather than waste their time with reading the “book”)

So you booked your session, you agreed upon the price, all you need to do is go to the meeting place. Shower before you go there. Some people might consider this advice redundant, but it helps cool down a bit, not to mention the hygiene aspects. For most newbies, their first D/s encounter is so scary, that they lose their mind. They are shocked, their senses numbed out, and all this because they are about to embark on a life changing experience…

But more about this in Part Two.